7 Steps to Avoid Insult: Cultivating Empathy and Understanding

 

There are some activities by which you insult others knowingly or unknowingly. Explanation can have no role here. Not giving respect can break relationships.

This is also an insult...

'The most powerful way to care about someone is to show respect.' When we behave in a way that disrespects others, we are in a way telling them that we do not appreciate having you in our lives. This damages trust, creates negativity and diminishes the importance of relationships.

Understand these seven activities carefully….

1.Disregard someone 

 You meet someone, talk to him a lot, keep in touch, and then suddenly one day he starts ignoring you. no message, no call This is quite common in the age of social media. What might the other person be thinking, he might also know some reason for his insult, that is why he might be constantly sending messages or calling. Healthy friendships or relationships are based on mutual trust and honest communication. Talking clearly – even if communication is then stopped – is the better approach. This will also maintain your self-esteem.

2. Wasting other people's time

 If you have promised to meet someone at a fixed time, then arriving late is an insult to that person and wasting that person's time. In a survey conducted in a company, Karmacha had placed time and key 2 at the top among his selected dislikes. He said that when someone makes him wait for two hours, distrust towards him automatically arises. Those who do not keep their word and consider other people's time as useless, such people lose credibility. Punctuality is such a habit that not only maintains a person's trust but also gives him the title of one who gives respect. 

3. Downplay achievements

 Every person has a different way of reacting to the success of another. And this style is doing a lot. According to the assessment of psychologists, the way someone reacts to success gives evidence of their feelings towards you and your year. 'Shhh, I should have brought full marks.' Perry tries to make pitiful achievements, which comes as a very bitter hour of humiliation. He is the only one who is truly happy with someone's success. does your image also because you are such a person There are those who sacrifice themselves for the happiness of others.

4. Digital multitasking

Smartphones have given us the means to stay connected with many people simultaneously. You may be messaging two- three people simultaneously, writing an email and possibly reading something at the same time. But if at the same time someone is sitting in front of you, trying to talk to you, then you should. This 'busyness' of yours is like insulting him. Instead of listening to what Yoji is saying or has taken time to tell you, you are engrossed in your own busyness, which means, 'Your presence or absence has nothing to do with me.' When we get lost in the confusion of the virtual and real world, it is always the real heart that hurts.

How much someone cares about you can be seen from the distance he keeps from his phone or laptop while talking to you.

5. Rave about someone

Some people may find it's like you have big days. You like this, but this is a kind of insult to your dress, you can do it like this on this occasion." Not Matari. Although it can be done on Kimi's introduction, but this kind of criticism should not be done.

6. Interrupting others

 When you read that you do not let someone's point be fulfilled, they clearly make it clear that their views, opinions and thoughts do not matter to anyone else and your thoughts are better than theirs. By placing your point in the middle, you make it clear that your point is to be taken and the other person does not have to say anything. Belongs to someone else. This creates an image of you as an arrogant elephant and a person who is severely lacking in self- discipline.

If someone listens to the other person completely and pays attention to him, then people get satisfaction in communicating with him.

7. Disrespect for feelings

Every person faces situations in his own way. Some people hide their problems, while some deal with them. If someone is showing his/ her emotions, then tell him/ her that he/ she is getting worried unnecessarily. Is this also something to be worried about? Or someone is sharing his future with his senior and he is telling him that this happens all the time, leave it. His condition is one of indifference to feelings.

If someone is going through a particular emotion, it is still better to leave him alone in his state of mind, but to deny or interrupt his thinking is to insult him.